The Art of Respect: Small Business Etiquette 101
Why “Can You Make This?” & “How Did You Do That?” Might Be Tacky AF
In a world full of DIY, drop shipping, and endless inspo scrolling, it's easy to forget there's a real human behind every small biz brand someone pouring time, money, creative energy, and (let’s be real) a few late-night tears into every single product.
So let’s talk about something a lil’ awkward but Seery-Usly necessary: What not to ask a small business.
“Can You Make Me One Like This [Insert Another Small Biz’s Work]?”
That right there? Major foul.
Here’s why:
- It’s Giving Creative Theft.
Asking one creator to replicate another’s design is like sliding into Beyoncé’s DMs and asking her to sing Adele's album exactly the same.
It’s not just rude; it’s a lack of respect for original artistry.
- You’re Not Just Asking for a Product; You’re Undermining a Vision.
Behind every tray, tumbler, tee, or SVG is hours of trial, error, and straight-up hustle.
When you ask for an exact copy of someone else’s creation, you’re saying:
“Your creativity isn’t enough; I want theirs.”
And honey... that’s not a compliment.
“Can You Tell Me How You Made That So I Can Do It Myself?”
Translation:
“I want your results without putting in your work.”
Let’s be real, small business owners aren’t gatekeeping out of pettiness. They’re protecting their process, their peace, and their paycheck.
Many biz owners spent:
- Countless hours learning new software, technique, and processes
- Hundreds (sometimes thousands) on equipment & supplies
- Years building their unique style and workflow
So nah, asking for the recipe without even buying the cake? That’s a no from us.
Here’s What To Do Instead:
- Support with your wallet (or at least your words!)
Can’t afford it right now? That’s fine. Share their post. Leave a kind review. Cheer them on.
- Ask for a custom inspired by your vibe.
Love their style? Ask if they’re open to something similar, but unique to you. Trust, most makers LOVE a creative challenge when it’s respectful and original.
- Respect the originality.
There’s room for all of us to shine, but it hits different when we honor the light in others instead of trying to copy it.
Bottom Line:
Small business isn’t easy, but it is sacred.
Every idea, product, and process is an extension of someone’s heart, hustle, and hustle budget. Let’s be kind. Let’s be ethical. Let’s keep it Seery-Us.
And remember:
Support creativity. Don’t steal it.